Wedding Vendor Tipping Guide: Who to Tip and How Much

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Tipping wedding vendors can feel confusing, especially when you're already managing a tight wedding budget. But it’s also a meaningful way to show appreciation for people who helped bring your day to life. Here’s a transparent breakdown offering suggestions of who to tip and how much.

1. Hair and Makeup Artists: 15–20%

Just like at a salon. This is one tip you’ll usually give at the end of the service.

2. Catering Staff: 15–20%

This might already be included in your contract as a "service fee." Check first.

3. Officiant: $50–200

For professional officiants, tipping is optional but appreciated. For a friend or family member, a thoughtful gift is more appropriate.

4. Photographer/Videographer: $50–200

Not required, but very kind—especially if they went above and beyond.

5. DJ or Band: $50–100 per performer

If they kept the party going and honored your must-play list, a tip is a great thank-you.

6. Wedding Planner/Coordinator: $100–500

They work hard. Tipping isn’t mandatory, but it’s a kind gesture, especially for day-of or full-service planning.

7. Delivery Drivers: $5–20 each

Whether it’s the cake, flowers, or rentals, tipping delivery folks is always appreciated.

8. Venue Staff: Ask First

If your venue employs staff like servers, coat check, or valet, check if gratuity is included.

9. Florist/Baker: Not Usually Tipped

A positive review or small thank-you gift goes a long way.

10. Anyone Who Went the Extra Mile

Tips don’t have to be just money. A handwritten note or rave review is golden.

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