Congratulations – you tied the knot! The wedding and honeymoon may be over, but there are still a few important tasks to complete. We’re sharing this post-wedding checklist with 5 tasks to complete after saying “I Do” to help you navigate the weeks and months following your big day.
1. Send Thank-You Notes
One of the most important post-wedding tasks is sending thank-you notes to your guests, family, and vendors. Express your gratitude for their presence, gifts, and contributions to your special day. Aim to send these notes within three months of your wedding.
Tips:
- Personalize each note to mention the specific gift or support.
- Divide the list between you and your spouse to make the task more manageable.
- Consider handwritten notes for a personal touch, but digital thank-yous are also acceptable for some situations.
2. Preserve Your Wedding Dress
Your wedding dress holds sentimental value and may become a cherished keepsake. To preserve it, take it to a professional cleaner who specializes in wedding gowns. They will clean and package it properly to prevent yellowing and fabric damage.
Tips:
- Research reputable wedding dress preservationists in your area.
- Ask about the preservation process timeframe for completion.
- Store the preserved dress in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight.
3. Change Your Name (If Applicable)
If you’re changing your name, start the process as soon as possible. You’ll need to update your name on various legal documents and accounts.
Tips:
- Obtain certified copies of your marriage certificate.
- Update your Social Security card and driver’s license.
- Notify your bank, employer, insurance companies, and other relevant institutions.
- Change your name on passports, credit cards, and utility bills.
- Update your will and any beneficiaries on insurance policies and retirement accounts.
- Review and update medical and financial powers of attorney.
4. Return or Exchange Unwanted Gifts
It’s common to receive duplicate or unwanted gifts. Most stores have a return or exchange policy for wedding gifts, even without a receipt.
Tips:
- Keep a list of gifts received and where they were purchased.
- If you did receive a gift receipt, tape it to the gift you plan to return to keep receipts and gifts sorted together correctly.
- Check each store’s return policy and timeframe.
- Consider donating unwanted items if returns aren’t possible.
5. Review and Share Wedding Photos and Videos
Once your photographer and videographer deliver the final products, take time to review and select your favorite moments. Share these with family and friends, and consider creating albums, prints, and digital slideshows.
Tips:
- Pick one of your favorite photos for a statement wall piece that you can show off in your home.
- Use one of your wedding photos to create custom thank you cards to send to guests.